Felicia Dreaming Out Loud

One thing you must bear in mind is that Herpes doesn’t mark the end of dating. There are millions out there who have had successful relationships in spite of having herpes. Although some people with Herpes hesitate to date fearing chances of transmission, with a few changes in lifestyle, if incorporated rightly, can help boost your social life.

Many people also accept that having herpes was a blessing in disguise as it helped them become honest and understand their partners better.

Here are a few Herpes dating tips –

• There are millions like you:

Its time you start believing in this statement. According to recent statistics, about 70 percent of the US population has Herpes Simplex Virus – 1 (Oral Herpes) while another 20 percent is infected with Herpes Simplex Virus – 2 (Genital Herpes). This means that you have a lot of people to interact with and learn about the disease.

• Don’t hesitate in talking to your partner:
  

This is the major reason behind most relationships witnessing a premature death. This is one of the most difficult parts of Herpes dating. However, if you respect the relationship, it has to be done. Telling your partner about it after having sex wouldn’t make sense, would it?

• Get your partner tested:
  

With a vast majority of the US population suffering from Herpes, it is likely that your partner has it already. Get your partner tested even if he or she hasn’t shown symptoms of herpes.

• Follow precautions:
  

As there is no cure for Herpes, following precautions is the wisest thing to do. Avoiding sex before and after outbreaks, using a condom, and taking herpes suppressants like Valtrex can drastically reduce the risk of transmission.

• There is nothing to be ashamed of:
  

Staying alone is emotionally very drenching for any individual. Often people with herpes feel so ashamed of themselves that they quit dating. Nevertheless, this isn’t the right approach. Confidence and courage can help you lead a positive life.

• Change your attitude:
  

Life doesn’t end with herpes. Each day, people with Herpes find their ideal match on Herpes dating sites. Relationship with a herpes – infected person is greatly feasible when you have it too. Be happy and try looking out for people with the same condition. This way you will definitely connect better and have a positive relationship.

Herpes dating is a widely acceptable trend as it facilitates two individuals who share a common ground to communicate. Moreover, as the virus cannot be transmitted twice, this is regarded to be relatively safe.